A peaceful ending to a beautiful life…
As corny as it sounds, we are those people whose pets are their children. Though I’ve had many pets in the past, I’ve never had one from kitten until the end, and I count myself lucky because these last few weeks have been excruciating.
We’ve known that Derby has had a heart condition (Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy – common among male Maine Coons) since he was three years old, but, for the most part, we could ignore it. There was not much to be done really, but we knew his condition could shorten his life. We are so very grateful for the ten years we shared with him.
He was a wonderful, loving, highly amusing cat who charmed us like no other, and everyone who met him could tell he was special. He loved banana bread, biting my pajama buttons in the middle of the night, and looking out the window when it was time for Chris to come home.
When we first got Cady in 2002, she chased Derby up a wall (literally), and then they stayed separated by a gate for 6 months. Everyone said they would work it out. Sure enough, one day about 7 years ago while we were on vacation and Cady was at the kennel, Derby called a truce and came downstairs. They’ve been working it out ever since. Yesterday, Cady laid down next to Derby, as close as I’ve ever seen them. She knew it was time to say goodbye.
Our hearts ache with a pain I’ve never felt before, and we will miss him every day. I know everyone says this, but he really was the best cat ever.
Go in peace, my handsome boy.





Ellie is very confused by the stream of water coming out of my eyes- she’s never seen those before. The visual of Cady next to Derby just got me. And in my world, having pets as your children is not corny. It’s my reality. I totally relate to you guys. What a lovely life to have shared. I’m seeing Charlotte and Derby running through grassy fields together in heaven. Rest in peace little love. And hugs to you two parents.
<3 i know how you feel. xoxo
I’m sorry, Hon. Big hugs to you.
The story about the kitties being together when Derby passed brought tears to my eyes. I am so sorry for your loss. My kitties are my life–and they are definitely like children. It’s heart breaking when something happens to them. I hope you are doing okay. Take comfort in your other kitties right now.
Hugs!!!
My cat’s getting up there… sometimes I look at him and I know the day is coming and my eyes fill with tears… I honestly can’t imagine what it will be like without him.
Pets are so much more than just pets, aren’t they?
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Choking down a lump in my throat and wiping tears.
I totally understand how you feel. I’m so sorry for your loss.
(((HUGS)))